Do you want to Take Control Of Your Love Life Once And For All

The Mistakes We All Make And How You Can Take Control Of Your Love Life Once And For All

The article below helps you dive deep into your own beliefs and then understand your own values.

But not only does it help you to understand your own values, it helps you understand why these values are helping you or hurting you in your relationships.

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Allow me to explain......

Who you attract (or who you don’t attract) into your life, and who you keep (or who you don’t keep) in your life, essentially boils down to this: whats you value

What you value determines what you find attractive. If you value physical appearance above all else, then you will be willing to sacrifice all other traits for physical appearance in a partner. If you value intelligence above all else, then you will be willing to overlook other traits in favor of intelligence.

What you value in your life determines what you’re attracted to in others, which then determines the kind of partners you pursue, and the people you end up in relationships with.

First Common Problem: You value the wrong traits in a partner — traits that are actually incompatible with you and/or create bad relationships. 

But it goes further than that. Because what you value also determines what you will cultivate and invest in for yourself.

So if you value money above all else, then you will invest your time/effort into making money and attract partners who highly value money as well. If you value honesty and authenticity, then you will invest in your own honesty and authenticity and therefore attract partners who value the same.

Second Common Problem: You invest and work on the wrong traits in yourself — traits that attract people who are incompatible or bad partners for you.

It all boils back down to what you value. Decide your values, prioritize them, and then get to work on them.

Then, like magic, watch your dating life completely transform.

It so happens that some values are better than others. 

Some values create better relationships than others. For instance, honesty generates better relationships than hype or impressing others. Trust generates better relationships than power/dominance. And respect generates better relationships than always being right.........

By Geocklyn.